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Pranks are supposed to be fun for both side and I don't think it was the case here nor before. This x10000000000000000. The first rule of practical jokes is that they should never have a victim. I was so mad at the timing of that because I couldn't do nearly as much as I wanted to on that trip because of that unexpected expense. This is not what men do its what arrogant and immature assholes do. Hiding an inhaler? I get that families can sort of haze newcomers, but slashing tires? I feel bad for your whole situation. To be fair he does sound like a doormat I dont think he will end the relationship bevore the wedding, maybe after a few years of a unhappy mariadge. Dont be surprised if Tim calls it off. Risking death because your family is shit just isnt worth it in the long run. Over a prank? I really hope you make them pay for the tires they slashed. Well done on sticking up for your partner! Or are they just sorry because they can't attend your wedding now? I hope he can see sense and decides not to marry you, you let them bully him for WAY too long. Or the panic and other feelings all together when you feel you cant breathe. NTA. Itll suck, but sounds like theyre quite toxic and you have the awareness to recognize it. Slashing tyres and hiding lifesaving medication is objectively not funny and is literally just bullying. NTA you protect your husband. You can die from an asthma attack! Your username is literally what you should be doing. She still goes all out. He sabotaged your relationship with your mother and hurt you in the process. NTA and the fact that everybody in your family enables it is so concerning. . Your fiance doesn't deserve this. He could have died. So the cops and court system is the way to go here. That's a prank. He ended up not seeing his son and I went to work. Getting uninvited from your wedding is nothing. The soft college boy clearly they feel insecure around him or they wouldnt treat him like that! Let mom know your full feeling and the risks they took. Truth is Timmy no longer feels comfortable being around them so this is saying something but he says he doesn't want to drive a wedge between me and my family. He should just man up and breathe good like the rest of them. Will they get the same abuse? That kind of behavior is toxic and pervasive. Gross. Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. Oh man I just had a discussion about this with two guys in their 50s giving me shit for seeing a doctor and getting a check up. Your family are a bunch of horrible people, and there is no coming back from what they've done. NTA. Also expect your mom might say she isn't going if they don't. I actually gasped when I read that. and it would be lost if theyre banned from the wedding. The men in your family are among the worst types of people and I feel terrible that your fianc had to endure that much before it was finally stopped. But they were also educated, kind, accepting, loyal. I, 22f, and my dad have had a tumultuous relationship for the last 5 years. You also suck for waiting this long but at least you have done something now. Dont let them go to your wedding. They likely thought my claims of abuse were unfounded at best and malicious at worst. Tell Tim that loving you is not a free invitation to be disrespected. He stole my moms car a few times and stole from me. NTA. Keep asking why. Little Timmy could have pranked them back by dying without his inhaler if he hasn't discovered its loss in time. Time to go no contact / extremely low contact. NTA This is so much an echo of my own life. But by cutting him out you're relationship with the other family members may have to change as well. Im a woman, but it my now-husbands family had treated me even 10% this badly, literally committed crimes against me they could be charged with criminally, I would not have continued dating him, much less married into his family. Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQ. Probably should have been too. I call this sort of thing radioactive stupidity. Your family are living in another century and you're NTA. A lot of the things you describe arent pranks at all. You never mention where you stand, but Im willing to bet that if they dont line up, you probably wont enjoy their company much. Dont let any of those family members ruin an extremely special day between you and Tim. This should go for anyone who defend them as well. But my point stands that this is gaslighting and the AHs are so obvious its painful. NTA Problem was I need my car for work. Your whole family including your mom sound like awful human beings. Try to embarrass, or challenge his authority in front of them? You allowed it to get this far, far enough that YOUR family jeopardized the health of a man you claim to love. pranks have no lasting impact, aside from a shared laugh in the future. From what you've said I sure don't. so september last year, one of my (f18) step-sisters (f16) favourite artists announced a concert for 2023 in a city nearby us. Pff too easy. I would have been outta there after being forced to play chess. If anyone did this to my husband I would have saw red. Tell your dad that he shouldn't hide behind your mom if he is such a man. Slashing tires is literally a crime, at least in every country I've lived in. Everyone should be laughing and no one's life should be in danger over one. Asthma is no joke. Um you both didnt cut off contact after his tires were slashed? All they're doing is alienating you and your man from the rest of the family. Judge, it was just a joke! But not to everyone. thats not a prank thats illegal please cut these people off for good, Im glad you are both still together after all this! I agree that OP never thought it was okay. OP, you need to absolutely stamp out your family's behaviour or risk losing a great guy who sounds as if he would go to hell and back for you. She's NTA. Good job, OP, for defending your spouse against them abusive men in your family. Half the stuff they did could land them in jail if he wanted to press charges. Shes realized now that their behavior is way out of line and is standing up for her fianc and their relationship. Hiding someones inhaler - again, NOT a prank. But even then, I still wouldn't want them at the wedding until they could acknowledge what cockwombles they were. Sounds like a bunch of dumb hicks bullying a city boy. OP your brother father and uncle all sound terrible with a very strange idea of what constitutes manliness. I wouldn't be surprised if intentionally hiding a medical device is illegal too, it certainly should be. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns. NTA all the way. And if someone almost killed my husband over a ill-planned prank they definitely wouldn't be invited into our lives anymore either. NTA. Theyll make your partners life a misery and at some point youd be forced to choose so you might as well choose your husband-to-be upfront. OP this is the path your male family members are headed down. NTA. If I was their SO I wouldnt have stayed after that. Your only punishment is not coming to the wedding? NTA - they sound truly horrible and yeah if I was your fianc I would want them at my wedding either. Poor Tim. And at some point your family are going to crack your relationship with your fiance right through, because contact is always going to feel to him that you're condoning it and secretly agreeing. NTA. Do they realize that your fiance could have died? Either dump the family, or dump the fianc so that he can find someone better. NTA but you would be if you put your SO in danger again just to play happy families. Maybe don't also make fun of his name and add to the problem? but what if i dont? (I was diagnosed at the urgent care with a failing galbladder. Throw the whole family away and start over. The mom is completely off-base. Dean and Kevin never had a good relationship because they never wanted my mom and dad to separate in the first place, they resented my stepdad and limitied contact once they moved out. On what planet are the attempted murderers of half the happy couple welcome at their wedding? Hes marrying you. Fuck those guys. They are bullying. Nuff said. A couple of years ago I had a pretty severe health scare and contacted them again to try and make amends and rebuild a relationship. Before or after he passed out/died? Here's a suggestion tell them that you'll invite them back if they tell a cop exactly what all they did, and ask the cop if it was illegal. They shouldve had charges pressed on them for slashing his tires. Asthmatic here. NTA - do NOT let these awful people come to your wedding. Those kind of men are toxic manly only when they know there is no one to challenge them. You would at least need someone to take you to the store. Or die. My family might joke around , but not once ever has my dad tried to drive off my bf/fiance/husband. SSDGM. This is THE hill to die on. NTA. I am sure they have along with the mother. This goes way beyond a "prank". I hope he realizes that unless you stand up for him and put your dumb ass family in their place - he should move on. This doesn't mean men aren't ignored & gaslit by doctors because they are. They at least all need to apologise and show remorse and understanding that they were wrong, along with a promise to stop this bullshit. That's what I was thinking & why I suggested elopement. Edit: fixed a typo saying tall instead of talk. NTA. Best of luck. You gotta step up for your man, yourself, and your future children because no way this stops at the wedding. This post has been removed due to the status of the original poster's account. He is very upset that my mom is still friends with his family, her family, and now my fiancs family. Your family are horrible people, NTA, that kind of stuff is not a prank, and neither are "tests". Slashing tires? Hiding his inhaler and trying to kill/risk his life. But stay strong. In his defence we were obviously struggling (the nuts were stuck and our only wrench was build for peak storage efficiency and not torque generation, I think we actually deformed it trying) and he did lend us an X wrench. NTA. Except this case you would be freeing both of you from bullying. Just stuck a needle in my back and tapped me like a maple tree. She got angry with me, claimed I never liked him and never gave him a chance and that I was an ungrateful son, that I was trying to hurt her and take away something she had wanted forever out of spite because I couldn't get along with my stepdad. He was not working and she had just retired from the military. Its unfortunate that they are your family members. Youre NTA for uninviting them but you may be TA for letting your family take the disrespect are far as they have and then downplaying their actions. Basically is he a good person and are you happy in the relationship. Saving this comment and links because this makes me think of my own dad so much right now. NTA , pranks and tests are okay but they need boundaries. Its your responsibility to make sure your family members are NOT abusing your partner under the disguise of tests and pranks. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns. I already knew that answer after you said they slashed his tires, NTA. The stepfather cared for her enough to pay for her wedding, take on a fatherly role, be there for her. And agreed, fiancee must really love OP to put up with this for so long. Are you going to allow these people around your future children? Your question shouldn't be about uninviting your asshole family, it should be People forget that asthma is a deadly lung condition and inhalers are life saving treatments. Only ones he were allowed to see where my grandparents. Holy fuck, your family is composed of toxic idiots. Apologize to this man. They're committing pretty serious crimes against him and they belong in jail not at his fucking wedding. He still went camping with them after months (years?) I'm almost done and it's been a lifelong dream of my mother's to have her children graduate from college. AITA for uninviting my stepdad from my wedding so my brothers could come? As a life long asthmatic I could never, ever, forgive someone who hid my inhaler and you are awesome for having your fiancs back. Best of luck!! Slashing his tires? This is straight up hazing. I'm almost done and it's been a lifelong dream of my mother's to have her children graduate from college. Keep the fiance and his family and go NC with yours because YIKES. NTA. And if my husband had asthma dad would lower his expectations, not attempt murder. Now imagine your family pranking your new husband yet again on what should be a day celebrating the two of you. NTA OP. "What type of relationship does your dad have with your siblings? Tell them you are reporting them to the police for attempted murder and get a restraining order. But OP is NTA. After she hung up I asked my fiance if I made the wrong decision and je said it's my wedding and I get to decide eventually but I knew he said that because he's biased. Who carries his weight in the relationship and household? And now youre questioning whether youre the asshole for uninviting them to your wedding?! He's the "type of man" you decided to marry and that's all they need to fucking know. They are POSs. You need to do more than not invite them from the wedding. I'd cut out my whole family if they pulled shit like that. Throwawayfamily976 29040 S x 9 G 2022-03-11 11:41:21 He should get them all charged. They could have killed him. There is archaeological evidence which suggests that Neanderthals cared for their relatives with health problems: Neanderthals would be disgusted by this behaviour. Please review our FAQ if you're unsure what that means. My only question was why havent you died on it sooner? Honestly, it is astounding that Tim is still with LW. The tire slashing would of been enough for me to cut my family out. Arent we trying to advocate for mens mental health? Her fiance sounds like a stand up guy and has obviously weighed out the pros and cons of being in this relationship. i think you should do more than just uninvite them to the wedding honestly. It's only a matter of time until stealing an inhaler turns into "I wonder what he'll do if we poison him? Right?! This guy should dump her and her toxic family and marry in to a family of decent human beings. NTA. Who the hell slashes tires as a "Prank" unless you're millionaires? NTA, you should elope and go NC with this family of bullies. Stop trying to make him love you. Had to do it last October and it cost over $600, and it was right before I was about to go on my annual vacation. My/my child's/my friend's/a complete stranger's inhaler is empty/missing! If you dont draw a line in the sand their nasty toxic behaviour (so called pranks) will never end. The men in your life are toxic. You know. Read this before contacting the mod team. Nta for revoking their invites. Maybe consider a destination wedding? Since I assume none of them are medical professional, how exactly where they planning on testing his asthma? Or he leaves her, and her family continues driving away every decent person until she finally ends up with someone as abusive as they are. https://www.bostonglobe.com/metro/2018/11/07/cambridge-health-alliance-apologizes-after-globe-magazine-details-woman-unimaginable-death/tUKk82EQQqaKMcE9L0gO6J/story.html, Id also tell them that if thats what they define as manly, theyre pathetic and useless bullies. In these sort of situations whatever he does will never be enough to measure up to people like that, and the narrow view of what "makes a man" is dumb and categorically untrue in this day and age anyway. They really think that's normal? These are not pranks. So, in theory my lung could open up more. Don't let his presence tarnish a day that is meant to celebrate how amazing and strong you are. NTA. They went way too far. Tell them you could give two shits what they think as they dont matter. Also think of the future. They put his life at risk, am I getting this right? The Homo Sapiens hid all their inhalers as a prank. They took his medication so he couldnt breathe well. Cut them off, OP. NTA- people can die from an asthma attack. It doesn't appear in any feeds, and anyone with a direct link to it will see a message like this one. I agree with other posters here, they are bullies, not pranksters. Your husband shouldn't have to deal with them ever again and you don't want that toxic masculinity around your future kids. There's something wrong with anyone who considers vandalism like slashing tires a prank. These aren't pranks. Hey OP, your family sucks big time. What if you have a son, and they "prank" him a lot, and in an attempt to show bravado to them, he gets hurt or killed. Last week, They took Tim on a 3 day trip and hid his inhaler, he left them and returned in 7hrs and told me, I was seething after he said they admitted to hiding it as a "challenge", I exploded on them when they returned. OP you gotta remind your family of that point right there. How manly would their intake photos look. Also I hope this doesn't take the shine off your wedding OP, and remember that day is about making two people happy, nobody else. I'd do anything for her because my brother chose her. I seriously wonder what kind of testosterone hell OP had to deal with growing up. Costing someone financially and putting said persons health at risk are not pranks NTA. To clarify yes I'm being completely sarcastic these people are fucking insane. OOP can fucking choke. I hope you and your soon to be husband have a wonderful life together OP! Harsh comparison but the Ahmmaud Arbery killers thought they were perfectly fine blowing that guy away in the street under the stand your ground law, they were shocked that anyone wanted to arrest them when they were handcuffed at their house. I would go NC with all of them. So basically your family members thought it'd be funny to see him end up in a life threatening situation. I doubt anyone here would find the choice so easy if they got stuck with it either. The way he calls you failure is super not okay You do what is right for you and go ahead and uninivite him. Being in a good mood I went on a websearch to add some examples of that having happened. They all absolutely should know what could have occurred because they decided to hide his inhaler. But that is your SO's access to AIR. Demands were never gonna do shit, actions were. exactly. Send them a video of a grown man having an asthma attack. Thats some psycho shit. Keep things the way you have them for the wedding and keep them out of your life also. That wasnt a prank or a joke, it was an act of cruelty. Handed his corpse over to you like sorry, he wasnt man enough to survive? Your cousin, brother, uncle and dad are TA for what they have done. Do you live in some backwoods place? Jesus christ NTA they sound awful. Who carrys 4 plug kits? I myself have an in law I do not like but noone would ever know it because I respect and love my brother. Criminal property damage and withholding vital medical equipment are not pranks. Also wtf will they put any potential Male children you might have through as well, under the pretence of helping then man up? Life saving medication! Yeah, shes a damn hero /s. This! NTA, and get security just in case if they even try to get in, The men in your family are assholes. Keep them away from your wedding. OP needs to ask her dad what hed think if her future MIL learned she had what could be a fatal allergy to nuts & decided to slip her some to test her womanliness. anyway, its my mums birthday next week and i was going to take the family out for dinner at a nice restaurant. You're right to make a stance. My question would be why the hell op allowed it to go this far without imposing consequences on her family. Please keep discussions within the posts of this sub. God I hate people. It's helped me to learn how many families with addicts change to fit the addiction. I said she could come and so could my brothers but I'm standing firm that my stepdad has to stay away. I hope not. As someone with severe asthma I am absolutely infuriated on Tim's behalf. They should deal with the consequences. This is a very real crossroad in your life. Cut them off completely and keep them as far away as possible. And I would have dumped OP if she didn't support me in making that move. OP's family isn't awful, they are abusive. I was pinching pennies for a good chunk of that trip. Keep a lifeline out for your siblings, if they ever choose to break free of his gravity, but harbor no regrets for those family members who keeps themselves in his orbit. It isn't easy to do; it isn't easy to learn when to do it. How is that funny? 5th house stellium meaning; how to handle being dumped with dignity; send a wave on facebook; international scout.He wrote: " AITA for uninviting my mom from my . You should cut them off. I see this a lot when it comes to autism, so I'm very prone to taking statements like this at face value. NTA- for un-inviting your dad, cousin, brother, and uncle from youre wedding. To not breathing. They all sound like the very worst the patriarchy has to offer and the fact that you are still in regular contact with them and subject the man you love to their dumb bullying is worrisome, to say the least. Right. Thats a lot of shit I would not put up with. Lets kill his dog to see if he burys his emotions like a real man! They might try to pull a family play where none of your family comes if they don't. Hiding an inhaler when away from home could be fatal. My dad (50 M) and I (24 F) have had a complicated relationship. Yes. AHs are still AHs. My junior and senior years of high school they had my two younger half-brothers and my stepdad forced me to drop out of all extracurriculars so I could take care of them after school which severely hurt my chances of scholarships. All of them. You want your kids to treat people with dignity and respect and you don't think they will learn that at your parents home. plus she didnt care about me paying 90 so i dont see why shed let me off the hook now. AUTOMOD Thanks for posting! I have asthma and reading that gave me chills. Id tolerate an event with lots of people where they were there but I didnt have to speak to them. They could have killed him. I told him I need to know if he is coming to walk me down the aisle and have our dance and he said he doesnt know and we will see. Just because theyre family doesnt mean you should allow them to hurt you. Moreover, do you really want people in your life that don't believe ASTHMA is a serious medical condition. Unfortunately when you live with something for so long, it becomes your normal. Her family is toxic. They clearly dont respect you or your ability to choose a partner either. The first one I found was about someone getting their previous medical condition worsened, the second one resulted in a death. Your family straight trash sorry. Sounds like your family is jealous that he's college educated. I feel bad for her but worse for Timmy. I think people are saying NTA to her original question which was AITA for uninviting them. So I 28f am getting married to the love of my life. Most of us bigger people would have had them charged with vandalism and just stopped engaging with them. NTA. Doesn't make him soft, The men in your family are obviously deeply insecure, if they feel the need to hide someone's medicine so they can get one over on the "college kid". Again, keep in mind him and I have never once hung out one on one just strictly in social settings. Whats up with their strange view on masculinity? OPyes, this is the hill you are willing to die on. This was them seeing if he would literally die. They were okay with killing or seriously harming your husband. That's alright up bullying. should've paid someone a couple hundred an hour to change them and then took them to court with the bill honestly. Guarantee they wouldn't find it funny if their tires were randomly slashed as a "prank.". "My stepdad did what he could "I literally freaked out because I definitely want my brothers to be at my wedding so badly and I tried A woman has been slammed after uninviting her stepdad from her wedding, . She wont. What about terrible family. 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